Letter: I'm punished for the 'sin' of being single

Sometimes I think it must be. Why? Because I often feel as if I'm being punished and I'm not alone – sorry, I am alone – but these feelings are not just mine.

Male or female, alone by choice or single status thrust upon us, we face situations that seem to say that we are less worthy than couples or families.

Shopping for food is one area where we are frequently at a disadvantage. You can buy two for one or three for two. Sometimes you can put part of an offer into the freezer, but not in every case.

The multi-purchases are not confined to food. Try going on holiday. Rarely is there not a single supplement, especially on cruises.

Oh well, stop moaning, at least I don't have to share a room with someone who snores, but that's small compensation when money is short or for other services.

Council tax costs us three quarters of the gross costs for a whole family. Well, two adults at least.

If I have to go on benefits and I have a spare room – or two bedrooms, that is – I get less help than if I have only one bedroom. What do I do? I can't do anything. There is nowhere for me to go and a move, if there were, would cost more than losing benefits while I can't work.

I'm not calling for help for me, but for others I know or don't know. Others who are really in need.

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